I know that this is supposed to be a filmmaking blog, but I wanted to convey my thoughts on fellow filmmaker (and someone all of us at Divergence hope to work with), Luke Goss’ new book.
I knew that Desert Conversation would have plenty of beautiful photographs and little nuggets of wisdom like those we get on Twitter. What I hadn’t been prepared for were so many deeply personal revelations. Many of us who have struggled to find our place in the world or who have fallen short of conventional success look at someone like Luke Goss, who has been making music and movies for thirty years, and figure he must have had life figured out a long time ago. As you read about his personal journey and this new stage of self-transformation he’s embarked on, it creates a wonderful sense of kinship for those of us doing the same.
I could have written a complete, book-length response to his book, but I didn’t want to make this all about me. It’s enough to say that every page, every paragraph brought up thoughts and feelings that I knew I needed to explore within myself. Every word resonated with the person I’ve been trying to bring out in myself. When I was young, before I’d been “conditioned by the world” as Luke writes about, I was obsessed with making the world a better place. As I got older and personally introduced to the cruelties of the world, I grew into what some have called a cold, unfeeling person. It’s only recently that I’ve come to realize I had something called hyper-empathy. The only way I was able to protect myself from the onslaught of other people’s moods and emotions, and my own sensitivity to being misunderstood was to disconnect with my feelings. I don’t want to be that person anymore, though I still struggle with how to maintain balance.
Luke’s philosophy (for yes, it is a philosophy) offers a different way to deal with the ills of the world: Kindness. It may sound simple, but it makes so much more sense than trying to fight against hate with more hate and anger. It makes more sense to try and bring comfort and happiness to someone who’s been bullied than to try and fight the bully, at least to me, someone deeply affected by the negative energies of others.
Which brings me to Luke’s polite insistences that these are only his thoughts, and his knowledge that, sadly, some will ridicule him for these ideas. Naive is a word that probably comes to some peoples’ minds. I don’t agree and, thankfully, I know that there are plenty of others that won’t either. In fact, his ideas are so refreshing and welcoming that I imagine legions would follow him into the desert to listen to him expound on them. Though, I very much doubt that’s something he’d actually want. Still, I can’t help but think that Luke Goss deserves to take his place among the sages and gurus. In a time when it’s more fashionable to point out flaws, Luke suggests offering words of kindness instead. In a time when we’ve become isolated by the very technology that was meant to connect us, he suggests unplugging now and then and actually talking to someone. In a time when every waking moment seems to be filled with more and more noise, he advocates silence and solitude, knowing that God, or the universe, or the spirit within has answers to all your questions if you are only willing to be still and listen.
Though he knows it may not be cool, he spends a lot of time professing to be a hippy and I can’t help but smile at the thought. He counts himself among a group of people who just want to see more peace, love, and happiness in the world, who want to protect nature, and don’t care what your skin color is or what background you came from. I can’t imagine what could possibly be wrong with that.